I'm sure you've heard it throughout your life and maybe you've even said it once or twice. "There's just not enough time in a day!" Well, I've definitely said that before because at times, it feels just so true. In just a mere 12 hours, you work for 8 or 9 of them and are left with just enough time to eat and go to bed. Right? I think not! Jeremy and I are in the middle of the coolest parts of life, where we get to play in the sandbox (okay, not so much a metaphor for me because I teach preschool) and figure out what we want our lives to be like. Doing this while working a full-time job, leaves you with almost no time for the simple things like sitting down for dinner or catching up on your favorite Netflix tv show. Something I've learned in this process is that you aren't just given time, you need to make time. If you want to work on your gardening skills, then go buy some plants and a book of how to keep them alive (and then tell me how to do it because apparently I can't keep plants alive) If you want to go on a hiking trip, take some of that vacation time that you haven't used and go. There are so many ways that we can grow if we just make the time and decide we're going to do it. So, I figured I'd share some things that I have learned to make time for and if you are going through a big moment of change, maybe it'll give you an idea of what you want to make time for. The small moments are grounding and have ultimately provided me with a sense of making this home. Basically what I'm getting at is making time is important, mmkay?
- Make time for a morning routine. Morning routines are essential because the routine can help center your whole self and become more in tune with your mind, body and spirit throughout the day. My routine includes time for self-growth or reflection (i.e. journaling and stuff like that) and time to relax before work. I've also been throwing in some exercise into that routine but more on that for a different post on a different day.
- Make time for creativity. Finding time to channel my emotions about this big change into a creative outlet (mine is songwriting and just dinking around on my guitar and ukelele) has been vital to not only surviving here, but thriving. This can come in many different forms though. If you used to paint in college but life has just started to get in your way, go pick up some paints and get goin'. If you used to throw some pottery (okay, I know that is DEFINITELY not the term you use but it sounds cool, I think.) then find a local pottery making place and join. Do something for YOU and a hobby or passion that you're well-versed in or something new that you've always wanted to try but never had the time. Make the time. (Wow, well don't I sound like lil' miss bossy pants? But it's just so true!)
- Make time to be in the present. Sitting out on our little patio and just enjoying the sounds of the neighborhood is one of my favorite things about this apartment. Jeremy and I love to have dinner out there and leave all distractions inside the house. This gives us the chance to talk about not only our days but things that we're struggling with and things that we want to celebrate. These moments help build our relationship amidst the whole 'we're super busy millenials who both have such big goals and there's not enough time in the day to pursue them' thing.
- Make time for self care. Okay, I can say this isn't my strongest suit BUT I am learning and it is a process. Just yesterday I got sent home from work because I was still so sick but felt like I needed to be there. Ultimately, my stubborness to be a good employee rather than taking the time to get better didn't help anyone. And now, since I was able to get that extra rest, I am feeling better and am able to be more present for the day at work today. Make time to curl up with the book you've been meaning to read but just haven't gotten around to it or take a nice bubble bath with a Lush bath bomb (shameless advertising because I love Lush so much) but just do something for yourself.
- Make time for family and friends. I can admit that I haven't been the best at staying in touch with all my friends when we all moved onto our new adventures but I can say that when I take the time to reach out and hear about their lives, I feel closer and we're able to cultivate those friendships from afar. Talking to my parents has been my lifeline during this move. I call my Mom and Dad every chance I get and whenever I do, I hang up the phone missing them terribly but also knowing that they're happy and so am I.
- Make time to make new friends. This one has been something that I need to do because Jeremy and I knew NO ONE when moving here and apparently it's kind of hard to make friends out of college and in a new city. BUT we have already made some friends here which has been so much fun! Basically, what I'm saying is take the time to reach out to someone new in your community. It goes a long way, I promise.
- Make time for adventures. Adventures are literally the best thing in the whole wide world and I love them so much. I don't even need to explain this one because who doesn't like to adventure? Our most favorite part about living in a new city is that every single day is filled with some kind of new adventure, whether big or small. And there are so many places to visit! Adventures are just fun and filled with no stress and they're just SO COOL.
So, get out there and make some time. I promise it'll be worth it.